Someone once told me that their past events, belief systems and thoughts were like a baby elephant that they walked round on a rope. Constantly dragging the massive load around with them day in day out. They said that their life got easier when they realised that they could live more easily if the elephant …
Monthly Archives: Nov 2019
Nature trump’s Nurture
Over 5,000 years ago, homo sapiens began to use language to communicate their needs and wants with each other. I’m assuming that their new found communication style was rewarding as language continued to develop to current day. Language and communication styles are still evolving, with the advent of social media and emojis. It seems the …
Time doesn’t heal
Hi, it’s me Today marks 6 short months without you. It feels like only yesterday that you were ripped from our lives. This day 6 months ago was the toughest of my life. The night before, I had fallen asleep hopeful for the future and eager to hear you speak again. The morning brought news …
Start the fans…
I’m in a bad place. My thoughts are difficult to connect. There are so many of them racing round that it’s hard to pick just one. (Think of the crystal maze and the final dome sequence). Once you finally grab a thought and listen to it, and start to process it, bam, more start hitting …
Into the wild I was released…
I’m trying to sleep but my mind is whirring like an out of control spinning top. Yesterday someone I haven’t known very long said 5 simple words to me – It Was Not Your Fault – but they didn’t just say the words. They looked me in the eyes, they connected with the scared little …
Let me tell you a story
I’m going to tell you a story of a girl i used to know and what she had to deal with growing up…. its not pleasant, it traumatized her. This girl grew up in a loving family home, with her mother, father and younger brother. She had a large extended family, some of which she …
Shrink(ing) Violet 